“Is my husband in love with someone else? My radar’s screaming at me that he is, but I can’t find any physical evidence to validate it. I think I’m going crazy.” Alissa
Alissa, I want to reassure you that your feelings of insecurity are valid.
First of all, you are not crazy! Release the negative thought, I think I’m going crazy, at once. Trust your instincts. Your feelings are not to be dismissed. If you’re thinking, where the images run through your head repeatedly, and having feelings of insecurity and suspiciousness, especially three or more times; your spirit speaks to you!
Have you ever considered asking your husband directly?
Sometimes, the best way to address a feeling of unease is by simply asking. Sit down with your husband and ask, “Are you in love with someone else?” Watch how he responds. Suppose his response is dismissive of your feelings. For instance, if he reacts angrily or if he accuses you of being crazy, that, in itself, is a red flag. It might be uncomfortable, but digging deeper into the situation and having an open conversation is essential.
Trust that the truth will reveal itself in time.
Despite no physical evidence, I sense that you’ve already noticed a sign that something may be wrong, but you may have either overlooked them or, for some reason, don’t want to acknowledge them. Your instincts have likely caught something you might not want to confront, but avoiding it won’t make it go away. Please pay attention to what has appeared to trigger you, and continues to run through your head. Address it immediately with your husband. Again, if he brushes off your concerns, refuses to talk about it, or acts dismissively, it could indicate deeper issues in the relationship. Don’t let time pass without confronting your feelings.
If you feel like something isn’t right, it’s vital to address it immediately.
Remember that communication is key to sustaining a relationship, especially long term. You owe it to yourself and your husband. I sense that you’ve been together long-term, have school-aged children, and share a business to confirm my message. This adds another layer to the situation but emphasizes the importance of addressing your concerns sooner rather than later. These points also validate the importance of my spirit message.
It’s better to know the truth than to continue in uncertainty.
I strongly recommend talking to your husband directly. While it might be difficult, having an honest conversation can lead to closure and a clearer path forward. Suppose the truth comes to light, and your husband admits to something. In that case, you must evaluate the next steps and decide what’s best for you and your family. It’s a tough decision, but your peace of mind and well-being are most important. Trust yourself, trust your instincts, and trust that you can handle whatever comes next.
Ask for the heaven’s help to speak from your heart to his heart at the right moment of time, and it is done!
Remember to take care of yourself during this difficult time. It’s important to seek support from friends, family, or a professional if you need it. I sense a father figure—I see a military veteran—is watching over you, and this message is coming through to guide you. His presence is significant now, urging you to find clarity and peace in this situation. I believe there’s a family history regarding this matter. Again, this spirit acknowledges your heart-felt question.
I wish you and your husband the very best as you navigate this difficult time. Stay strong, stay calm, and trust the process, dear Alissa!
I recommend reading my channeled blosg called Your Spirit Message for more insight:
